this post i will talk about forgiveness, we need to forgive each other, and stop having hard feeling toward any one, life is much shorter than that and useless to waste in trival stuff

i am writing that bec it happened that one of our aquantainces died suddenly almot suddenly or not suddenly she was ill and she get better for a while and suddenly she died, sorry for the morbid narration , well i was in good terms with her but i was internally very upset from her bec of some stuff that i think she didnt mean it and she has no hand in it

well what really hurted my feeling when suddenly a person goes by and you feel upset from yourself that internally you could be wrong with her and now she is the hands of God, so that is really bad, i dont want to experience the feeling that i have something bad inside me towards any one again , i mean life is shorter than that , i know it is hard sometimes people really do BAD things but i am talking about stuff that we can get over it if we want to

to forgive each other is something very impprtant and brings peaceful to the heart , and most of all try to do all the good deeds we want to do , and with the people , as well , nothing really worth except the good act and behavior and good psychology that is what remains.

i remember in this occasion , the person that prophet Mohamed PPBUH mentioned about him that he will enter el jana (paradise ) and when one of the followers followed him to see what he does extra to enter the paradise , he found that he does nothing extra than the followers , but he told them that when ever he sleeps, he doesnt have any thing bad or hatred in his heart towards any one , (by what it means the word he said )

it is quite hard but it worths the trail